Ponder a while and donot take rash decisions especially if you have kids. Think many times over and donot be afraid. It is not worth living a life of fear cos fear itself is a disease that will eat you alive. If you fear/know that a
1. Immediately file RCR, if your wife is separated from you(Restitution of Conjugal rights is like saying"I want my wife back(who deserted me), but with the following conditions"- but since the wife's intention itself is wrong, she won't be able to agree to those conditions(you can even make the conditions more difficult and impossible, to make sure that she will not come back) , it is similar to divorce petition only in the prayer you will be asking court for your saftety, prevent harrasement , and blackmail/extortion .
